No they cannot be returned to your hand after they have been destroyed. As a Spirit Monster's main effect:
This card cannot be Special Summoned. This card is returned to the owner's hand during the End Phase of the turn this card was Normal Summoned, Filpped Summoned, or flipped face-up.
Meaning, after it gets destroyed, it's in the graveyard for good, nothing can bring it back. And once it is destroyed, it's secondary effect:
This card is returned to the owner's hand during the End Phase of the turn this card was Normal Summoned, Filpped Summoned, or flipped face-up.
doesn't kick in.